Make-up, no make-up, or a no make-up make-up?

I stopped wearing make-up in my 3rd year of university. I was really pretty then, and young, and I had such confidence that I could still look pretty without painting on my face. And I was right about that. I was photogenic and the whole idea of wearing make-up to me was simply unnecessary. Mind you I spent a fortune on my skin care products instead of cosmetic though. And 25 years later I am still make-up free but I can see signs of aging on my face (and body) these days which are not pretty at all. Is it because my confidence level has dropped or is it about time to visit the cosmetic counter for some colours and grooming?

It is not easy to be a celebrity. The medical breakthrough has helped models and celebs to keep up their looks but at a cost too huge to bear. Take a look at the new Bridget Jones and Meg Ryan for instance, who are they kidding after the make-over / plastic surgery? It is high maintenance and just impractical to say the least. Why can't we all accept aging as a natural progress and thus age gracefully like Susan Sarandon and Meryl Streep? 

I believe there are underlying reasons for those who decide on taking drastic measures in their appearance. A loss of identity, lacking of security, low self confidence, and possibly a fear of abandonment. Do I miss my old self when I was all pretty and attractive? Do I miss being the centre of attention wherever I go? Hell yes I do but there is no way I would pay to have my face or body parts altered. The results aren't just worth it! Am I going to be 20 again in reality? Will I ever relive my past experiences? No. I am 46. Period.

I want to look my age. I want to look stylish too. Having my colours done and a style consultation have put my mind to rest figuratively speaking (and that is the trigger to my pursuing the profession of an Image Consultant). I know what my best colours are and what my preferred style is based on my personality and body shape, as well as my budget and occupation, I can now create outfits at a blink of an eye and shopping is no longer a go-to hobby. As for my face, I would always prefer to go bare but my moisturiser but my job requires presenting my best self so I spent my birthday (in March) at the Bobbi Brown counter stocking up my essentials. It is like learning how to walk again after a stroke and the myriad of products / techniques of application is just overwhelming. It will take me a while and some serious practise but it will become a habit once I accept my new look.

Timing is another thing. The introduction of no make-up make up is spreading like wild fire in the fashion scene. A low maintenance luxe is not only relegated to 2o year olds. I like the idea of natural make-up. My skin care regime includes exfoliating 3X a week (in general), cleansing in the morning and before bed, and toner immediately after to minimise the pores. Moisturiser is a must on clean face. I would always go for products of quality, either organic or with essential oil as part of the compositions. Here are a few brands I personally recommend:

Aesop

In Essence milk cleanser

Neal's Yard Remedies

The body shop-Vitamin C range

Ivory soap
Keratase (the red series for coloured hair)

As a matter of fact, I always have different products stand by on my shower caddy. I get to decide on which products to use on the day according to the weather to suit the needs of my skin. Spring is the season when I need to be more flexible in my beauty routine especially in a city like Hong Kong, with such a high humidity and unstable weather, my skin knows what it requires and I have to be super careful especially when I am stuck in air conditioned environments most of the time.

And who says it is easy to be a woman?